- Shallow conversations – He refuses to talk about emotions, feelings or future plans. Marriage is out of quesion. Even when he speaks about it, he never acts towards it. He wouldn’t even discuss intellectual topics. He is all about sex, sex, sex. How cute your body looks etc.
- Protective Over His Phone – Yeah, either you never get the password or he deleted his filthy conversations. His chats are always empty! Honeychile, he is hiding something!
- Keeps The Relationship Secret – Yep! He cannot afford to be exposed. That would only bring trouble! He hesitates to meet your family and friends (he prefers meeting the female friends so he can hit on them). He brings up excuses why you cannot meet his family. He makes your fears a reason to keep the relationship secret.
- 80% Of Time Spent Together Is On Sex – Every date, meeting, hangout you have ends in bed? You are one of his sex toys, girl. He gets angryand threatens to get it elsewhere, when denied.
- Tells Lies Without Blinking – “And the truth shall set you free” so he is gonna lie. Even till death. He would rather die than have you know the truth.
- Cuts All Your Family/Friends Off – Everyone around you is saying he is up to no good? He would tell you they are envious of your (joke of a) relationship. He will make sure you depend solely on him. With lies, he will turn your close friends against you.
- He Has A Lot Of Female Friends – “OOOhh Babe! She is just a friend/ coursemate who needs help/ colleague/ lil sis’ bestie” He knows every girl, And makes your female friends his friends with such diligence you would think he was preparing for award.
- OpenlyShows Disrespect To You And Other Women – He flirts with other women in your presence, even your own friends. He doesn’t mind sleeping with them and blaming it on them. He talks of other women in a degrading manner. Just know he talks about you to the others in same way, too.
- Pretends To Have All The Qualities You Seek In A Man – He condemns all that you condemn. Because he knows opposing you is much harder. So he goes the easy way: You do not want a man who does not drink or smoke? Oh I do not drink or smoke. You want a man who goes to church? I love God. You do not want to date/marry a man with kids? I do not have any kids. And the list goes on …
- Plays The Victim – As a woman, you should trust your instincts. After trusting your instncts and discovering the truth, he claims you do not trust him when confronted. He is the helpless puppy. He needs you and you are being so unfair. He plays on your guilty conscience.Everything seems so different after you and him “talked things over”? He a Playa!
He drains you physically, emotionally and sometimes even financially. Beware!